Love Teaches What Control Tries to Kill

Love and control are not roommates. One liberates. The other suffocates. This piece cuts into the uncomfortable truth that real love—raw, honest, unpredictable love—demands surrender. Control hates that. It wants guarantees. Scripts. Locks on every door. But love doesn’t give a damn about your neat little plans.

It shows up uninvited, barefoot, and emotionally reckless. And in doing so, it teaches you things that control would rather bury—like trust, vulnerability, and the terrifying beauty of letting go.

The heart shape is misleading on purpose. Love isn’t cute. It’s revolutionary. And if you’re doing it right, it’ll scare the hell out of your ego.

This is a rally cry for anyone who’s choosing connection over control—even when it feels like free-falling in the dark.